Introduction
This article is intended for my Muslim sisters who don't wear hijab
and are not sure they want to. Sisters who have already decided to wear
hijab but are nervous about actually doing it should read my article Tips for Beginning to Wear Hijab instead.
Islam: Submitting our will to the will of Allah SWT
The Arabic word
islam simply means "surrender (to Allah)". The
essence of our religion is this surrender or submission. It requires
trust on our part. Trust that Allah SWT will be there for us, trust that
He knows what is best for us.
Submission to Allah SWT requires that we put Him before ourselves.
That we put our desires second to His desire for us. That we acknowledge
that He knows better than we do what is right for us.
Very often, such submission is difficult. Sometimes it seems that
everything that happens is bad, and we wonder how Allah SWT could desire
this for us. And sometimes the things He asks of us are difficult to
do, either because it seems too much to ask, or because it seems
pointless or out of date. In times like this, submission becomes a
struggle. We really have to work to find our trust in Allah SWT. We
really have to do battle with our souls to admit that what we want or
what we think doesn't seem to be what's right or best. Should we bother?
For me, the answer is yes, we should bother. Allah SWT tests us. He
sends difficulties our way to see how we cope. He wants to see if we
will keep trying even when it's a challenge. He wants to see if we will
maintain our faith in Him, and trust in Him. If we
do continue to
have faith and to trust in Him, then He may reward us with Jannah for
our sabr, inshallah. And Jannah is the everlasting reward. Any
difficulty we face in the world will seem as fleeting as a nightmare
when we look back from the Hereafter, and any ease we face in the world
will also seem as fleeting as a dream. We shouldn't set these fleeting
states as our goal; we should set the ultimate happiness as our goal.
And the ultimate happiness is Jannah.
So if we have hope of Jannah, we should persevere even when it's a
struggle for us, and we should keep on trying to perfect our submission
to Allah SWT. This is what the religion is about: sabr, jihad, and
islam.
Quran and Sunna: The way that Allah SWT has commanded
I mentioned above that part of Islam is trusting that Allah SWT knows
what is best for us, and it is submitting to His judgment even if we
don't think we agree. If Allah SWT has commanded something that we don't
understand or don't like, we shouldn't reject that thing. Instead, we
should try to seek its wisdom for ourselves and to change our own minds.
Now, the testimony of faith that we make to become Muslims, or when we assume adult status in the deen, has two parts:
laa ilaha ill'Allah and
Muhammadan rasul Allah. The first of these,
none has the right to be worshiped except Allah,
is a statement of our belief that Allah SWT is ruler of all, judge of
all, all-knowing, all-powerful. It is He who must be obeyed, and
obedience to anybody else is merely conditional and must not be done if
they ask us to disobey Allah SWT. And Allah SWT has given us everything
we have, our existence, our life, our capabilities, our goodness. If He
took any of it away, there is no power that could help us get it back.
And we could never repay Him to match what He has given us, or even
begin to. However, in his infinite mercy, Allah SWT asks of us only that
we obey Him. Isn't it the least that we can do for Him after all that
He has done for us?
There is also the second testimony,
Muhammad is the messenger of Allah.
The Prophet (sAas) would not be a messenger if he did not come with a
message. And his message is the Quran. We are really also testifying
that the Quran is a message from Allah SWT, and therefore, obedience to
Allah SWT entails obedience to the Quran, because it is His word.
The Quran also tells us to obey the Prophet (sAas) as well as Allah
SWT (see for example Surah an-Nisa ayah 59). It tells us that if we have
faith we will take the Prophet (sAas) as the judge of any dispute
(Surah an-Nisa ayah 65). It tells us that when both Allah SWT and the
Prophet (sAas) have decided a matter it is not for a Muslim or Muslimah
to have any further say in that matter (Surah al-Ahzab ayah 36). It
tells us that what the Prophet (sAas) has given us, we should take and
what he has prohibited to us, we should refrain from (Surah al-Hashr
ayah 7). And it tells us that the Prophet (sAas) has been sent not just
to deliver the Quran but also to explain it (Surah an-Nahl ayah 44).
How do we determine what the Prophet (sAas) has ordered, in order to obey it?
How do we find out what he judged in disputes so that we can abide by it?
How do we know what he has decided on matters, so that we can submit to it?
How do we discover what he has given, so that we can take it, or what he has prohibited, so we can abstain from it?
How do we learn how he has explained the Quran, so that we can follow that explanation and not other explanations?
The answer to all these questions is that we look at the Sunna. The
Sunna is the Quran put into action by the Prophet (sAas). It shows what
he ordered, judged, and decided. It shows what he has given us and what
he has prohibited to us. It shows how he explained the Quran.
If we do not obey what the Prophet (sAas) has ordered, or abide by
what he has judged, or submit to what he has decided, or take what he
has given, or refrain from what he has prohibited, or follow his
explanation of the Quran - then we have disobeyed Allah SWT.
That is why, if we are sincere about obeying Allah SWT and following
His commandments, we should follow both the Quran and the Sunna.
Hijab: A commandment of the Quran and Sunna
In the first part of this article, I have argued that part of our
commitment to Allah SWT is to trust that He knows what is best for us
and that what He has commanded is what is right. I said that if we find
ourselves disliking the way that He has set for us, our challenge is not
to ignore or to try to change His command, but rather it is to seek for
ourselves the wisdom in the command and to surrender to His will. If we
don't like what He has commanded, we should try to change ourselves not
Him. We should try to find reasons why His command is right and will be
beneficial for us, and we should try to motivate ourselves through this
to obey the command.
In the second part of the article, I have established why the Quran
and Sunna are where we look to find what Allah SWT has commanded.
Neither one can be taken alone but they both go together.
So, what do the Quran and Sunna say about hijab? There are two ayat
of the Quran that deal with hijab. These are Surah an-Nur ayah 31 and
Surah al-Ahzab ayah 59. Let's look at what these ayat say, and how the
Prophet (sAas) has explained them.
Surah an-Nur ayah 31 says:
Wa qul li al-mu'minat yaghdudna min absarihinna wa yahfazna
furujahunna wa laa yubdina zenatahunna illa maa zahara min haa
wal-yadribna bi khumurihinna ala juyubihinna; wa laa yubdina zenatahunna
illa li bu'ulatihinna aw aba'ihinna aw aba'i bu'ulatihinna aw
abna'ihinna aw abna'i bu'ulatihinna aw ikhwanihinna aw bani ikhwanihinna
aw bani akhawatihinna aw nisa'ihinna aw maa malakat aymanu hunna aw
at-tabi'ina ghayri ulu'l-irbat min ar-rijal aw at-tifl alladhina lam
yazharu ala awrat an-nisa wa laa yadribna bi arjulihinna li yu'lama maa
yukhfina min zenatahinna. Wa tubu ilaAllahi jami'an, ayyuha al-mu'minun
la'allakum tuflihun
And say to the faithful women to lower their gazes, and to guard
their private parts, and not to display their beauty except what is
apparent of it, and to extend their headcoverings (khimars) to cover
their bosoms (jaybs), and not to display their beauty except to their
husbands, or their fathers, or their husband's fathers, or their sons,
or their husband's sons, or their brothers, or their brothers' sons, or
their sisters' sons, or their womenfolk, or what their right hands rule
(slaves), or the followers from the men who do not feel sexual desire,
or the small children to whom the nakedness of women is not apparent,
and not to strike their feet (on the ground) so as to make known what
they hide of their adornments. And turn in repentance to Allah together,
O you the faithful, in order that you are successful
Surah al-Ahzab ayah 59 says:
Ya ayyuha an-Nabiyy qul li azwajika wa banatika wa nisa
al-mu'minin yudnina alayhinna min jalabib hinna; dhalika adna an
yu'rafna fa laa yu'dhayn. Wa kana Allahu Ghafur Rahim
O Prophet! Say to your wives and your daughters and the women of
the faithful to draw their outergarments (jilbabs) close around
themselves; that is better that they will be recognized and not annoyed.
And God is ever Forgiving, Gentle.
Together, these two ayat lay out seven commandments for Muslim sisters:
- "to lower their gazes"
- "to guard their private parts"
- "not to display their beauty except what is apparent of it"
- "to extend their headcoverings to cover their bosoms"
- "not to display their beauty except to their husbands or their fathers..."
- "not to strike their feet (on the ground) so as to make known what they hide"
- "to draw their outergarments close around themselves"
It can be seen that three of these commandments relate to behavior. These are:
- lowering the gaze
- guarding the private parts
- not striking the feet on the ground so as to give knowledge of what is hidden
Lowering the gaze means not looking at what is forbidden to be seen
of others. Guarding the private parts means that only the husband is
allowed to see or touch them. Not giving knowledge of what is hidden
means not posturing or strutting around so as to jangle hidden jewelry
or make men think about hidden body parts. All of these are part of what
Allah SWT has commanded in regard to hijab.
The other four commandments relate to dress, and can really be expressed as three rules:
- not displaying the beauty beyond "what is apparent of it" except to the people listed in 24:31
- extending the headcovering to cover the bosom
- drawing the outergarment close around
What exactly is the meaning of each of these rules? For this, we need
to look to the Sunna, because the Sunna shows us how the Prophet (sAas)
explained the Quran.
The Prophet (sAas) explained to Asma bint Abu Bakr (rAa) that the phrase
"what is apparent of it" refers to the
face and hands.
This is narrated by Aisha Umm al-Muminin (rAa), Qatada (rAa), and Asma
bint Umais (rAa). This has been confirmed as the explanation of the
phrase by the following scholars:
Sahaba: Aisha Umm al-Muminin (rAa), ibn Abbas (rAa), Anas ibn Malik (rAa), and Miswar ibn Makhrama (rAa)
Tabi'un: Ata (rAa), Qatada (rAa), Sa'id ibn Jubayr (rAa), Mujahid (rAa), al-Hasan (rAa), and al-Dahhak (rAa)
Commentators on the Quran: Imam Tabari, Imam Zamakhshari, Imam Razi, and Imam Qurtubi
In fact, the majority of scholars have agreed that the phrase
"what is apparent of it" refers to the
face and hands. For further information, please see
Opinions of Scholars in Favor of Displaying the Face and Hands.
Therefore, the first rule can really be phrased as
"do not display the beauty except for the face and hands around non-mahram men".
This is the basic rule of hijab. You must recognize it. This is where
it comes from. It is nothing other than the Prophet's (sAas) explanation
of the Quran.
The second rule is to extend the headcovering (khimar) to cover the
bosom. The commentators on the Quran have explained exactly what this
command entails:
Imam Abu Abdullah Qurtubi: "Women in those days used to cover
their heads with the khimar, throwing its ends upon their backs. This
left the neck and the upper part of the chest bare, along with the ears,
in the manner of the Christians. Then Allah commanded them to cover
those parts with the khimar."
Imam Abu'l-Fida ibn Kathir: "'Extend their khimars to cover
their bosoms' means that they should wear the khimar in such a way that
they cover their chests so that they will be different from the women of
the jahiliyyah who did not do that but would pass in front of men with
their chests uncovered and with their necks, forelocks, and earrings
uncovered."
From this we can see that the jahili women wore their khimars
kaffiyah-style, with the ends tossed over their backs. This covered most
of the hair, but left the forelock (front of the hair), the ears, the
neck, and the upper chest uncovered. Then when the commandment,
"Extend their khimars to cover their bosoms,"
was revealed, the women secured their khimars around the circles of
their faces, fastened them at the chin, and let the ends drape down
toward their bosoms. This would cover the forelock, the ears, the neck,
and the upper chest, just as Imam Qurtubi and Imam ibn Kathir have
indicated. And the end result is clearly a headscarf.
So what we have is that all of the body except the face and hands is
commanded to be covered around non-mahram men (by the clause
"not to display their beauty except what is apparent of it"), and the covering of the hair, ears, neck, and upper chest is specifically to be accomplished by the khimar (headscarf).
These are the two rules indicated by Surah an-Nur ayah 31, and once
we understand how the Prophet (sAas) explained the meaning of the ayah,
we can see that it clearly and explicitly sets out the dress of the
Muslim sister around non-mahram men: a headscarf and conservative
clothing that together cover everything but the face and the hands.
There is also the commandment in Surah al-Ahzab ayah 59 to wear a
jilbab (outergarment). According to the majority of the scholars, this
commandment applies when a sister is outdoors or in open public places
(like the market or the masjid). The jilbab is thus the modest Islamic
coat that goes over our modest Islamic clothes whenever we would wear a
coat.
To learn more about the jilbab, please read my article Evidences for Jilbab.
This sets out dalils from the Quran and Sunna, and the opinions of the
scholars regarding the jilbab. To summarize the information in that
document, the jilbab is any garment that meets the following conditions:
- it is an outergarment, an extra layer, something worn over the clothes
- it is thick and opaque and loosely cut so that it conceals what is underneath it
- if it is worn with a khimar and with socks and shoes, it should
cover from the shoulders to the ankles; if it is worn without these, it
must cover everything but the face and hands, like a cloak
Again, the jilbab is to be worn outdoors and in open public places.
The purpose of wearing the jilbab is to assert our Islamic identity and
to provide protection from harassment for us. It is part of our hijab
for these locations.
Summary
According to the Quran and Sunna, hijab consists of modest behavior in
lowering the gaze, guarding the private parts, and avoiding showing off,
and of modest dress. The modest dress includes a headscarf and must
cover all of the body except the face and the hands. Outdoors and in
open public places, a long coat (jilbab) should be worn in addition to
the modest dress commanded by Surah an-Nur ayah 31. Each of these
obligations is clearly set out in the Quran and has been explained by
the Prophet (sAas).
My challenge to you
To me, the obligations of hijab are clear, explicit, and detailed
when I look at both the Quran and the Sunna. There is no question in my
mind; I am convinced that Allah SWT has indeed commanded hijab.
Inshallah, I hope that after you have studied the dalils I have
presented, you agree with me on this. Frankly, I don't see any other
interpretation.
If we are agreed that the Quran and the Sunna
do command
hijab, then the real question is: how important is it to you to follow
what Allah SWT has commanded in the Quran and Sunna?
It's your choice. Is it important for you to obey Allah SWT? Do you
think you should submit your will to His? Do you believe that He knows
what is best for you? Do you think that if you dislike what He has
commanded, you should be the one to change, not Him? Are you willing to
set aside your dislike and to try to seek the wisdom in what He has
commanded? Are you motivated to try to surrender to Him even though it
may be difficult for you? Is the promise of Jannah worth going through
some hardship now?
Please consider each of these questions. If you are sincere in your
commitment to Allah SWT, and in your choice of Islam as a religion,
don't you think you should give hijab a try?
Afterword: If you're coming to think that hijab is part of the way
that you want to serve Allah SWT, but you're not sure how to get there
from here, please read my Tips for Beginning to Wear Hijab. Inshallah, it may help you find your way.
The materials on this page are written by Al-Muhajabah.